Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Friendship

Ha ha!!!  So I called it, I am horrible at this daily post thing...I just have to make it habit.  I have done it with other things.  Just set aside some time each day to come on here and chat it up about the good things in life!

So, some things have happened since my last post which have taught me two things:

1. If you have a feeling about someone based on their previous behavior, you will be proved correct.  This happened with the "friend" I referred to previously where things changed in my life and I felt a lack of support from her.  She opted to go on Facebook and bash me about who I was and my past.  What is funny is the things she said where exactly what I had voiced to her that I was changing.  And it just goes to show that whatever we had wasn't a real friendship.  It saddened me...more for the fact that it cemented any concerns I had.  I really wish it would have ended differently or not at all but at least now I can move forward without a doubt in my mind whether opening up with my feelings was the right thing to do.

2. There are good people out there who will love and accept you for who you are!  You only life once so make sure to find these people in your life.  Don't get stuck with someone because you are shy when meeting new people or you don't want to hurt someone who has been there for you.  If they are a true friend, he or she will be happy for you to spread your wings and fly!  And the shyness thing - you are an awesome person and anyone would love to have you as a friend.  Just remember that!

"A best friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway." ~Elbert Hubbard


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